Get Laid Tonight
You need a better way to meet people to get laid tonight.
What you really need is a better way to meet the right people – at the right time.
You’ve done all the usual stuff – bars, clubs, friends of friends – and that’s all OK – but you just never know if you’ll meet a person who wants what you want, or if it’s a complete waste of time.
Whether you are looking for a way to be more successful at the dating game, or searching for a life partner, or just looking for a casual hookup – you need to have a way to easily and consistently connect with the right people – at the right time.
Welcome to Get Laid Tonight.
I’m your host, Jay Connor.
If you are wondering why you should listen to advice from me, or if you want to get in touch, just visit my “About and Contact” page by clicking here.
With that out of the way, let’s get started by jumping right into how to get laid fast with casual dating:
How To Hookup Fast
When you absolutely, positively have to get laid tonight – the best way to accomplish that is to find someone else who absolutely, positively wants to get laid tonight.
Now you can go about that two different ways:
- Get really good at seducing women.
- Meet women who need no seduction.
And in reality, it helps a lot when you can do both!
But let’s start with the #1 choice for those in the know:
Just Use A “Dating Store”
OK, I’m talking about online dating. I call dating sites “dating stores”, because just like you can go into a real store and browse around until you find something you like – you can use dating sites to connect with people who are actively looking to connect with people too.
People just like you.
People Seeking Partners
It’s like browsing around in a clothing store looking for that perfect shirt or jacket.
You know what you want, you see several that will be just fine, so you pick the one that fits you best at that point in time.
The great thing about dating sites as a strategy to get laid tonight, is that you create a profile outlining what you are looking for, and then you browse profiles create by others outlining what they are looking for.
In a sense, it’s like “pre-screened’ partners.
You have pre-qualified them by narrowing your search to people who specifically fit the profile you are looking for.
Sounds great, right?
It is indeed – the internet has finally delivered!
The Good News About Dating Sites
They work.
It’s just like the old-style newspaper classifieds:
You want to sell a car or hire someone to do yard work – so you place an ad.
Then, people who are looking for a car or a job doing yard work, read the ad and contact you.
With dating sites, people create profiles describing themselves and what they are looking for, then other people can search profiles to find someone with similar wants.
Best of all – you’re not wasting time at the hookup bars where you never know what people are looking for. It’s like window shopping for a sex partner.
The Bad News About Dating Sites
But here’s the catch – most of the ones that work – really work – are not free.
The good thing is that most of them – even the ones that work – are only a few bucks a month.
So let me ask you this:
More Good News About Dating Sites
Would it be worth the cost of a couple of beers and some wings to put together a list of dating partners who have put it all out there? They are ready to hookup. And they are ready to hookup with someone just like you!
It is to me, and I’m betting that it is to you too.
So that’s the hands-down easiest way to get laid tonight:
Just find other people who are not only looking to get laid – they are advertising that they want to get laid.
But For Those Who Like The Chase
But what if you like the “excitement of the chase”?
Maybe you enjoy playing the “dating and mating game”. Using your personality and your skills to entice someone – or to seduce someone – is your favorite thing.
When you go to a club or someplace where you want to meet a woman you will almost always see basically three kinds of women. It may vary a little from place to place and from time to time, but the key is to recognize three basic types of girls who are out on their own. That means that you should:
Know Which Women To Look For
When you know what to look for, it’s almost as easy as if they were wearing a sign.
Here is what you will see:
Women who dress to kill
Those who look like they just got out of bed and threw on some sweat pants
Those who are in between
Girls who want attention dress to kill. However, you don’t really rule them out as someone you might seduce; but the competition over them will be a lot stronger.
By contrast; the ones who look like they just rolled out of bed are trying not to call attention to themselves; they certainly aren’t trying to attract anyone; these are the ones least likely to be open to seduction. They probably won’t help you get laid tonight.
And then…
WHOOP! There She Is!
Then there are the ones who are in between the two extremes; these are the ones you want to focus on; because they are the best candidates for seduction, and your best bet for finding a casual partner fast.
They don’t dress in such a way as to discourage attention, but they aren’t attention whores. Chances are that they want some sex too.
Finally, once you’ve picked out a woman that you find attractive and who fits our criteria for being open to seduction; what’s next?
Do you just walk up and start a conversation?
Yes, and no; would be the correct answer – this is where things get really interesting and this is what separates those who are lucky from those who are good; and as a result; those who will score tonight from those who probably won’t.
You need to observe her body language before you approach her and all the while that you are talking to her. You also need to know how to send out the right “silent signals” of your own.
The Language That Doesn’t Lie
Words can be false and misleading; by contrast, body language almost never lies.
With an understanding of body language you will always know what she is thinking and feeling no matter what she might be saying, thus you are ahead of the game.
Additionally, you can also silently send signals that will bypass her intellectual brain and tap directly into her feelings and emotions; and lead those feelings down the path to where you want them to go.
This is a powerful technique of seduction – therefore, who needs luck when you can speak directly to her emotions?
The science of reading and sending the silent signals of body language is far too complex for me to cover in great detail here; there is a lot more information on some of the other pages of this site, so I encourage you to check them out; but here are a few tips:
Is She Submissive Or Strong
When you first approach her does she meet and hold your gaze or does she quickly look away and then back?
If she holds your gaze that is an indication that she is meeting you as an equal and might be a little less open to your advances. If she glances away and then back; that is a sign of submissive behavior; and as such, that is what you want to see.
It’s the first hint that you have found the right girl because you will be able to guide the interaction.
While you are talking to her, don’t face her directly but rather with your chest and shoulders at a slight angle to her.
She will sense this subconsciously. She knows that you are interested in her but not yet “hooked”.
Couple that with glancing away from her and looking at other women; not staring; just quick glances; and she will interpret this to mean that you feel like you have other options.
Soon, she will start displaying more submissive signals; she will face you directly and start leaning in toward you when she speaks to you.
Now the single biggest mistake that a lot of guys make when they have met a new woman is one you might not even think about. This mistake will kill your chances with her fast.
It is one that could land you in the dreaded “Friend Zone”.
The Importance Of Casual Touch
To get laid tonight, actual physical contact is probably as crucial to success as is the initial approach and the conversation that follows because of this:
You build emotional rapport as the conversation goes on – a mental connection – she becomes comfortable with you emotionally.
You must establish that physical contact, otherwise comfort on a physical level never starts to develop.
So to repeat – you need to touch her often; just a quick pat on the hand or the arm or the shoulder; not a lingering touch – that will come later – just a quick, casual tap as if you are “talking” with your hands and maybe emphasizing a point.
This sets the stage for a physical relationship and that is critical to hooking up.
Once you build that rapport; you introduce some sexual arousal into the relationship. Your chances go through the roof with the introduction of sexual arousal.
“Oh, just like that!”, you might be thinking?
Yeah, just like that – so let me tell you how:
Creating Sexual Arousal
The easiest way that I have found; what probably works best for me; is this:
You carry on the conversation just like normal, and you imagine things that get you aroused.
Furthermore; you don’t try to work these things into the conversation; you just think about them.
Once you become aroused; your body language will start to change and she will perceive these changes on a subconscious level.
The voice will get a little softer and lower; your eyes will narrow slightly; your breathing pattern will change; and she will feel all of this on an emotional level.
A very powerful technique is to glance at her lips when she is speaking to you; so look from her eyes to her mouth and back again.
Do it frequently.
When you see her doing the same; it’s time to find a more private place because you are about to get laid tonight!
What about you:
Are You Ready To Get Laid Tonight?
Finally; I appreciate you visiting and taking the time to read. I do encourage you to look through the other pages of Get Laid Tonight; because there is a lot of information here.
Close The Gap And Close The Deal:
- How to overcome approach anxiety even with really beautiful women
- Passing the “tests” that women give us to decide if they want a relationship
- Ways to get a girl’s phone number almost every time
- Planning to avoid; or to get out of The Friend Zone
- Reading and sending the right body language at the right time
- Techniques to tap directly into a woman’s feelings and emotions
- Preventing he Red Zone response that will shut you down cold
- A crazy way to make out with a woman you just met
- How to break up with a girlfriend the right way
- I hope you’ll check them out because they could help you find that no strings hookup in your hometown.
We appreciate your visit to Get Laid Tonight.
Be sure to check back often, we update regularly, adding new tips and techniques that you don’t want to miss.
No matter if you are looking for a traditional, long-term relationship; a one-off casual hookup, or maybe even a “friend with benefits”; we can point you in the right direction and even equip you with step-by-step instructions and ideas – and even inspiration – to help make your favorite fantasies come true!
Check out these other pages for even more info on where and how to meet the girls you are looking for – and what to do once you meet them!
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Hi Amy.
Thanks so much for visiting and for the kind comment!
Be sure to check back – I’ll have some new posts up shortly that I think you may find interesting.