Friend Zone – Press The Reset Button

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Getting stuck in the Friend Zone –  “Friend Zoned” – can be a really frustrating experience.

In case you don’t know what that is; it’s like this:

the friend zone ml sidebar 2 wideYou meet a new girl you are attracted to; and she is obviously attracted to you; you start seeing a lot of each other; you are very comfortable with each other and everything seems to be going really well; and then; it happens – nothing.

That’s right; nothing happens; nothing physical – you are officially in The Friend Zone.

Now a guy can get stuck in The Friend Zone for any number of reasons but the single most common reason for it is that you simply did not touch her enough from the very moment you met.

When we first meet someone new there is a gap between us so to speak; emotionally and physically. As we talk the emotional gap begins to close but the physical gap remains until you actually physically connect. It is important from the very beginning that you bridge that physical gap by touching her and doing so often.

This will result in closing that physical gap and as the attraction grows and the emotional trust and comfort increases; so will the comfort with a physical relationship.

This will help to keep you out of The Friend Zone.

Now don’t go overboard with this advice and try to be all “touchy-feely”; that has too much of a creep factor about it and about the only thing worse than being in the Friend Zone is being in the Creep Zone. I’m talking about an occasional tap to the back of her hand or maybe her arm; just a spontaneous pat or tap during the conversation.

So now that you know how to avoid the Friend Zone you might be wondering what you can do to get out of it should you already be there.

That’s a little tricky and difficult but sometimes it can be done. However it requires that you give her a reason to completely re-evaluate the relationship; essentially “pushing the reset button” and letting you start over again with the knowledge that you now have.

There are no promises and no guarantees – once you have been “friend-zoned” there is the real possibility that you can never get out. There is also the possibility that the “cure” might be worse than the “disease”. Right now; you have a friend – you want more than that; but you have to decide if going for it might be worth damaging the friendship.

But if you handle this right, you don’t run that big of a risk; so here we go:

In all likelihood you have paid a lot of attention to this girl; maybe even made her feel special; and this is the key to pushing that reset button and getting another chance at getting out of The Friend Zone.

What you need to do is call her sometime and invite her to hang out with you and some other friends.

This isn’t a date; your not picking her up; she’s just going to meet you someplace. Now that you have that set up you call several other friends; especially female friends and ask them to be there too.

When the time comes and everyone is hanging out and having fun; it is absolutely critical that you pay an equal amount of attention to everyone including the girl you are interested in.

Now this is going to shock her and surprise her. She expected that she would get the same amount of attention that you always show her; being in this situation where you are treating her just like everyone else might just make her want more of your attention just like she has had before; and it might make her look at the relationship from a different perspective.

Give it a try; there’s nothing to lose.

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