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How can I meet W4M – women for men?

The most common and most popular methods for meeting W4M are:

  1. Public venues
  2. Friends and Social Contacts
  3. Localized events
  4. Random opportunities
  5. Online resources

You can meet W4M too using these methods.
You can maximize your chances of success by utilizing more than one method.

W4M – you read that correctly and no, this isn’t Craigslist.

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This is arguably one of the best resources on the web for helping men connect with women.

But first – I know that some of you guys can be impatient. You are concerned with only one bit of information:

Where can I meet W4M right now, right here in my town?”

OK then, here you go:

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So now let’s get back to the question of where to find women looking for men for dating, romance or sex.

What we are going to cover on this page are different ideas and techniques that you can start using right now in order to meet women looking for men right in your hometown:

  • Picking out women in a crowd who are looking for men
  • Maximizing social opportunities to connect with W4M
  • Using local events to meet women searching for men
  • Meeting women through random chance
  • Utilizing online resources to find W4M

This will get lengthy.
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Also know this: you should decide what kind of encounter you are looking for first.
Before seeking out women for men, know what kind of relationship you want.

Obviously, to meet a girl who is looking for a long term situation, don’t search in swinger’s clubs. You could of course – and that might make for an interesting relationship.

The flip side of that is that you might be less likely to find a casual dating partner at church.

The point is – you don’t search for the kind of women you hope to meet where they most likely are not to be found.

Most visitors here lean to the “casual” side of dating so that’s my main focus. But if you want something more serious, we’ve got that covered too.

Let’s get started.

W4M – Working the Crowd

Clubs and bars can be pretty good places for meeting women.

Also, you can meet a wide cross section of women who are looking for every kind of relationship imaginable.

And that’s part of the problem – there is no focus to the search.

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Girls aren’t usually advertising that they want to meet men. You certainly can’t tell what kind of relationship they want.

Still, there are opportunities – especially if looking for a casual encounter.

Girls who are just looking to be “picked up” tend to make it obvious. They’re usually dressed flashy and acting flirty.

They are good candidates for a cold approach. But every other guy in the place is seeing and thinking like you are.

In other words, the competition is stiff – literally and figuratively.

But maybe the place isn’t crowded.

Maybe there’s so many of those sexily-dressed, flirty women there that the competition is light.

If so, do two things immediately:

  • Send me the name and address of that club.
  • Approach that girl, she is who you are looking for.

Otherwise, remember this:

Generally, you will see three types of women in the clubs:

  • Those dressed and acting in ways that draw attention.
  • Some who are “under dressed” like they are discouraging attention.
  • A few who are right there in between.

It’s those women in between that you want to focus on. Especially if lots of guys are already zeroed in on the flashy – flirty types.

The reason is simple:

These women are usually open to being approached.
That means they are probably open to meeting a new guy, and maybe open to seduction.

I won’t get into the seduction scenario here.
You’ll find everything you need to know about that elsewhere on the site. Check out the menus to the right and top of the page.

If the clubs aren’t to your liking, then maybe you should think about:

Meet W4M – Socializing, Friends and More

w4m sidebar image 1Here’s something interesting about how women meet men today:

39% of people responding to a recent survey reported that they met their partners through introductions by friends.

There’s two things surprising about that:

  1. In these days of smart phones and dating apps and sites, the #1 most common way for people to meet is still one of the oldest ways we know of.
  2. That number is in free fall.
    Ten years ago, almost 80% met through friends or social contacts.

Starting around 2008, dating sites entered the mainstream. It was no longer considered “weird” trying to meet people online. Coincidentally, that is also when dating apps like Tinder became popular. Also during that time, interracial and inter-faith marriages exploded.


These tools allow our circle of contacts to grow quickly. There’s no relying upon “friend of a friend” introductions.

Stated simply:

Dating apps and sites put us into contact with people we would never meet through introductions by friends.

This new technology created a surge in the size and reach of our social networks.

Consequently, we now meet potential partners from backgrounds unlike our own.

So an effective strategy in seeking W4M is to make friends and contacts using all means. You will be connected with people you just wouldn’t meet otherwise.

In addition to using apps and online resources, you can:

  • Join a club.
    The goal is to meet new people and also meet their friends.
  • Take a class.
    It can be a hobby class (cooking, flower arranging, etc.) or something educational. There will be women there with the same interests.
  • Volunteer.
    Meet and interact with other volunteers.

There are many ways to broaden your circle of friends and contacts.
You can find more suggestion for that on other pages here.

With 39% of all couples meeting through friends, having more friends means more chances to meet more women.

Meet W4M – Attend Local Social Events

This can mean different things.

Some are specific to meeting women for dating.
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If you are a sci-fi fan, check out a science fiction convention or a comic-con in your town. There could also be a cultural event to attend. If so, you have a chance to meet people with similar interests.

A more focused approach is to see if your town has “speed dating” events. There is a service that sponsors such events around the country. You can find more information about those dating events by visiting here.

Speed dating is great for meeting people that you would not typically meet.

  • People move from table to table.
  • They spend a set time talking to the person at each table.
  • Each person records who they want to see again.
  • Afterwards, the organizer provides contact information upon approval.

These are like interviewing a dating partner.

You ask questions and share interests for a few minutes.
Then you have more contact with those who you choose, who also choose you.

At public events or speed dating events, the goal is meeting new people.

Meet Women for Men – Random Chance

Random might be inaccurate because there is a strategy at work.

It is “random” because you don’t know who or if you will meet someone.
The aim is to go where other people are. You spot someone who looks interesting or attractive and approach them.

w4m red cta buttonIs this different from going to a local bar and approaching random women?

No – it is basically the same thing.
But we are going to add something that makes it more effective.

Don’t limit yourself to bars and clubs.
You also don’t always go places just to connect.

This technique is it isn’t “focused” either. Except for going to a bar and hitting on flirty women. They probably want attention. Maybe not so much a girl at the walking track.

Think of it like this:

In a public place – a club, a grocery store, a walking track – you are within feet of women who want a relationship.

Often times, you are separated only by an introduction.
You can do that yourself.

This requires that you be OK with making a “cold approach”.
You have to approach a stranger and start a conversation.

If you hesitate to do that, you may have “approach anxiety”. You can overcome approach anxiety using other resources here. The door of possibility will be opened to you if you do.

But here is the short of it:

To meet people the old fashioned way, you have to get in front of them. You have to go where they are. You have to be willing to start a conversation.

Look for some common point of interest that invites a comment:

  • In a book store, comment on the books she is browsing.
  • In a grocery store, remark on something in her cart.
  • At the track or the gym, say something about her brand of active wear

Use your imagination.

You can always find something to justify an opening and say, “Hello”.
It will keep you from seeming creepy or forward.

Meet Women for Men Online

A few years ago there was no such thing as dating sites or apps.w4m woman squatting image

In just ten years, meeting online has become the second most common way for people to connect. w4m orange cta button

It is the most common way for same-sex couples to meet.

By many accounts, it is the most popular method now.
A big reason for that is this:

  • You narrow your search to exactly the kind of people you hope to meet.
  • You focus only upon people who want the same thing that you want.

This is a like window shopping for a partner.

If you want certain physical attributes or backgrounds; just filter prospects by those.

That’s also true of the type of partner you seek.
For any kind of relationship; just limit your search to like-minded people.

This removes most chance or luck from meeting someone.
It does the same for matching compatibility factors.

Dating APPs

The most popular today is Tinder, but there are others.

A big consideration with apps is the profile that you create.
Your profile gets someone interested enough to make first contact.

Create a profile for success by:

  • Use a good profile picture.
    No goggles or shades – don’t hide your face.
  • Keep it short.
    This isn’t your resume or a job interview.
    Information overload is bad.
  • Mention something you like – a sport, a hobby, etc.
    It shows that you have other interests in life.
  • Mention a character flaw or imperfection.
    Set yourself apart – many guys try to look perfect.
    “I’m a Star Wars nerd”, is funny and harmless.
  • Create a small “mystery”.
    “I met Taylor Swift, but that’s another story”.
    Say something that will leave her curious.

Dating apps are great for meeting people on the fly.
They provide some focus to who you meet.

Find W4M – Dating Sites

This is the fastest growing, most popular way to meet partners.

It’s like goinw4m green cta buttong to the dating store to shop for a date.
You make the connection only if you see someone you like.

Dating sites and apps will soon be the #1 way that people meet.

It’s popular for simple reasons:

  • You can search just for people who share your interests.
  • Select partners based upon physical attributes.
  • Focus on people who are looking for the same arrangement as you.
  • Search any time – 24/7 – from the comfort of your home.

It’s like this:

Say that you want to meet a woman who is tall and has green eyes.

What if you could go to a dance just for tall, green-eyed people?
Would you meet any tall, green-eyed women?

Of course you would.

However, using a dating site isn’t the right fit for everyone:

  • Some people like the excitement of meeting face to face.
  • They want the up close and personal.
  • Some guys like chatting and flirting.
  • They enjoy discovering who she is and what she wants.

I like that too.
If you do too, it’s still out there and available to you.

But dating sites are a great fit when:

  • You already know what kind of person you want to meet.
  • You don’t want to waste time finding a specific kind of partner.
  • The type of person you want to meet is hard to find.

Be aware though, all dating sites are not equally created.
Also, not all are created with the same users in mind.

Sites like Friend Finder are geared toward “traditional” kinds of dating.

Sites like Fling are more for casual dating and finding a local hookup.

Additionally, some are just geared toward separating you from your cash.
They use “chat bots”. They slam your inbox with messages from “women” who want to contact you.

The trouble of course is that they aren’t real.

Here are a few things to consider before trying a dating site:

  • Use older, established sites.
    They’re still around because they deliver.
  • Select one with a big membership base.
    More members means more people in your area.
    That means more who want what you want.
  • Look for long term members.
    If people stick around you can be sure of this – it works.
  • Only use those with free trial sign ups.
    If they want cash up front to – grab your wallet and run away.
  • Choose only secured sites that protect privacy.
    Look for a little green lock or “https” in your browser bar.

Dating sites are now mainstream. They are the “go-to” way for people to meet today. You will see that for yourself.

So there – these are some of the best, most popular ways to meet women looking for men.

You have a lot of different options.
There is no doubt that you can find at least one that will be a good fit.

Why not try them all?

Get out there and meet some women looking for men.

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