Sexual Tension and
Sexual Arousal
There seems to be a lot of mystery and confusion in the minds of many guys about how to create sexual tension and sexual arousal.
I’ve read a lot of stuff from the dating experts, the seduction artists and the pick-up pros that boils down to this:
There is this big, closely guarded secret to the whole process of creating sexual tension or sexual arousal.
However; the only thing you need in order to learn the big secret is their e-book or a membership to their “exclusive” site or forum since that is going to break it all down for you.
Sexual Tension And Sexual Arousal Made Simple:
The “secret” to creating sexual tension and
sexual arousal in a woman can be as easy as thinking about sex.
It’s as easy as getting yourself aroused.
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The Psychology Of Seduction
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Emotional Contagion
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Now I’m not saying that they can’t help you be more successful with women.
Or that you won’t find any value in what they have to tell you for a one-time special price or a low monthly fee.
However, what I am here to say is that even a lot of these “experts” fail to get it right.
They make it harder than it has to be because they don’t know the best way themselves.
There is an old saying that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line; and that is true.
If one of those two points is you and the other point is a woman that you want to seduce; you don’t want to go all the way around the world. You want to go straight to the heart of the matter.
Sexual Contagion – The Secret Revealed
The shortest distance between those two points isn’t through flirting or touch or through witty conversation. It is by speaking directly to her emotions. You use your own emotions in a way that she doesn’t even know is happening.
You don’t give her something to “think” about – you give her something to feel on a raw, subconscious level.
The other “secrets” and techniques of creating sexual tension and sexual arousal are fine since they’re useful to know. But the real secret to seduction is to create that sexual tension and sexual arousal through what is called, “emotional contagion”.
Now that’s a $50 phrase to describe a simple fact of human nature:
We tend to pick up on the feelings of those around us.
That is especially true if we already have an emotional rapport with that person.
Ideas And Emotions Can Spread Like A Virus
We also tend to feel an empathy with those people. Because we don’t just pick up on what they’re thinking or feeling – we start to feel it ourselves.
That is emotional contagion.
You (or they) start to feel what you sense someone else is feeling.
So how do you take this new phrase – this new idea – and use it?
Here’s the big secret: You get yourself sexually aroused.
How hard is that?
While you’re talking and flirting and carrying on; you just start to think about things that get you sexually aroused. Consequently, you don’t have to talk about those things; you just think about them and go with it.
What will happen is that as you start feeling sexual tension and sexual arousal; she is going to sense that. It will be felt on a very primal level. She won’t even think about it; she will just feel it and start to respond in kind.
So give it a try – you just learned the biggest secret that the seduction gurus never knew how to teach you.
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