No Strings Dating
No Strings dating is a pretty hot subject right now.
Of course, you already know that – that is probably why you found this site.
I’ll get into the reasons why it is so popular. But just in case you want to jump right over all of that and find an NSA dating partner – you can do that by clicking right here.
What Is No Strings Dating?
Read on a little if you will:
I am going to get into some details of exactly what it is, and why you might be interested in it. We’ll also discuss what to look for and expect if you decide to try it. But most importantly; we explore how to go about finding it right in your hometown. However, if you do not want it too close to home; we cover those options too.
But first:
This is a big picture and we cover it all with everything you need to know, organized into logical steps:
From no-strings dating to friends with benefits to finding
women who just want to be seduced, we have it covered.
Check out the other pages in this series and start getting busy:
Women Looking For Men
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Women Who Want To Be Seduced
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Friends With Benefits
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NSA dating of course stands for “No Strings Attached” dating. It is really the pretty much the same thing as casual dating. Basically it is an arrangement between two or more people that are not interested in a more permanent or long term kind of relationship. Consequently, they meet up with like-minded people whenever the mood strikes. They just hook up for some fun and companionship; and then go their separate ways.
No Strings, No Promises…
In the normal sense; NSA dating means that there is no obligation and no promises. No other “together time”; and no strings attached as far as any kind of continuing relationship.
Now, a lot of people just don’t think about relationships in that way. For many, you meet someone, you get along, you start seeing each other a lot. Eventually, you enter into a traditional kind of relationship that is generally exclusive. You don’t have intimate relations with anyone else for the duration of your arrangement.
That is all fine and it still works great for many people; even most people. A lot of times those types just cannot understand why someone would be interested in anything else. They don’t understand seeking something that is just for the moment.
Why Choose No Strings Dating?
The truth of the matter is that there are a lot of different reasons why some people are interested in NSA dating. That does not mean that they will never be interested in a more permanent kind of arrangement. It’s just that it is not a good fit for them at that particular time in their lives.
Probably the top reasons why people look for NSA partners are:
When No Strings Dating Fits
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- They are too busy to nurture an on-going relationship.
That can mean that they are students working toward a degree; or that they are starting a career and trying to achieve goals. Many of the people in this situation feel that a “steady” relationship will simply take up too much time and distract them from their goals.
spacer - They have just gotten out of a long term relationship. You have probably been there yourself. Maybe you are there right now. You have been involved with someone for quite a while, and as usually happens, sooner or later; it ends and you go your separate ways.
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When that happens; the last thing a lot of people want is to jump right back into some kind of “regular” relationship. They are not ready to withdraw from the dating and mating game; they still want some companionship and someone to share some time with (sometimes); but nothing steady or permanent – yet. No Strings Attached dating is a great fit for people who find themselves in that spot in life.
Placeholder - Some people (this describes me) just like a lot of time alone. A “normal” kind of relationship usually does not fit in too well for us. We certainly do not want to become hermits; but we want company when we want company; and the rest of the time we just want to suit ourselves.
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A no strings attached partner is pretty much a perfect fit for that kind of lifestyle. Both partners have a dating “friend” without any of the obligations or attachments that go along with other kinds of dating scenarios.
- They are too busy to nurture an on-going relationship.
NSA Dating Offers Flexibility
There are of course many other reasons why people might want to get into NSA dating. Your particular situation might be different; but the end result is the same:
You need a partner for the here and now when it suits you; and nothing more for later.
As you might expect; no strings dating partners are a little bit harder to find than people looking for “regular” dates. Really, they are not that hard to find; you just need to know where to find them.
Finding No Strings Partners
Unfortunately, if you run down to the local pub on lady’s night you are not going to find a potential NSA hookup sitting on every other barstool. Consequently, you have to focus your search a little tighter. You look in places where those kinds of people tend to also be looking for no strings partners.
And that is a key here:
You search where others are looking for NSA partners. You skip looking where they are not. I mean, you don’t go to Burger King for prime rib, right?
That is not to say that you cannot meet NSA dating partners the old fashioned way. It is just less likely. It is sort of like trying to meet someone who is really into exercise at an all you can eat buffet. They go there too from time to time; but most of those people are more into eating than exercising.
For that reason, don’t waste your time looking where they probably are not.
Focus on looking where they probably are.
That sounds like simple common sense I know; but that is the one key thing that a lot of people get wrong. They want to find a casual dating partner – but keep hoping to meet someone where those people just don’t hang out.
Getting Focused:
Fortunately; you change that pretty easily; here are a few ideas that can help you get on the right track:
- Your town probably has some kind of personals advertising. It might be something in the local newspaper or a hometown magazine. Or it might be something like the old Craigslist personals. This is a good place to start – it is not always the best place. But if you use a little caution it can be a good place to search.
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I have a problem with this avenue because a lot of people misrepresent themselves. They also misrepresent what they are looking for. I have friends who have met seemingly interesting prospects this way. However, when it was all said and done that prospect had a butt load of crazy where their brain should have been. Like I said – a little caution and skepticism is a good thing.
new line - Some cities – especially larger ones – have singles clubs or swinger’s clubs. These provide a pretty promising outlet for meeting other people who are interested in NSA dating.
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People into those clubs and that lifestyle are really looking for the same thing that you are. Some of these places are pretty exclusive as to who they let in. Single guys frequently are not admitted unless they have a referral from a member – or bring a girlfriend. So you might have to get creative in order to get an invitation to get in.
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You can effectively meet NSA dating prospects is through online dating sites. Internet dating has really taken off in the last few years. It is no longer for old guys surfing porn sites and pretending to be someone who they are not.
Our Changing Times
In a dating and relationship survey not long ago; nearly 23% of the people who responded reported that they had met their partners through internet dating sites. That is a mainstream statistic. The biggest advantage to this avenue is that you can search specifically for the kind of people you want to meet. Whether you like short or tall, thin or stocky, younger or older – it is seriously like being able to window shop for an NSA dating partner.
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One word of caution if you do decide to go this route:
Not all adult dating sites are created equally. Be sure to use one that has been around for a while and has a proven, satisfied and repeat membership list.
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You can find one like that by visiting here
Is It Right For You?
NSA dating is a great alternative to traditional dating arrangements. It works for people who just don’t want, don’t need or are not ready for a more permanent kind of partnership at a particular stage in life.
People don’t look for dating matchups with the intent of getting married and starting a family any more than they intend to buy every vehicle that they might test drive.
Fortunately, you can use some of the tactics listed above and you can “test drive” a lot of different partners looking for a lot of different things.
If no strings dating sounds right for you – give it a try – visit here now.
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