Hard Wired For Pleasure
Humans are hard wired for pleasure.
We have to be – because that’s what keeps us alive and growing.
It’s just human nature to seek out things that are pleasurable – like having sex – while trying to avoid things which are not.
And that is true on an emotional level as well as a physical level.
We prefer to be around people who make us laugh, people who share similar beliefs and opinions. Because people who; through their words and behavior; confirm the beliefs we hold about ourselves and society confirm our feelings.
Additionally, being hard wired for pleasure also makes us prone to being manipulated into doing what others might want us to do.
Hard Wired For Pleasure – An Open Door
We crave approval and confirmation. Consequently, when we are presented with a compelling argument that doing some thing will give us health, wealth, happiness or satisfaction; we are often eager to do that thing.
That’s the whole purpose of advertising:
- Plant an idea that something is desirable or necessary
- Create a desire in us to do or have that thing because of the associated benefits
- Make us visualize ourselves enjoying those things
- Present us with an opportunity to have or do those things.
It is because we are hard wired for pleasure that we are susceptible advertising and peer pressure.
Pleasure can come from possessing something, and it can come from gaining approval by people we like or society at large.
Not only do we tend to like to be around people who think and feel the way we do; our feelings in the moment can be shaped by the feelings of those we are interacting with.
If we are in a group of people who are all happy; we tend to start feeling happy too – we really are hard wired that way.
If we are surrounded by people who are glum and unhappy – guess what affect that might have on us as well.
It is simple, human psychology; and consequently; it can be a powerful tool when you know how to use it.
Manipulating Human Nature
There is actually a phrase to describe it that influence – emotional contagion is shared feelings.
You’ve heard the old saying that “attitudes are contagious” – and it is literally true – since the people around us can shape our moods. Additionally, our moods can dictate our behavior.
Now the purpose of all this is to bring together two facts about human nature because they can be purposely exploited:
- We are hard wired for pleasure.
- We adopt the feelings of those around us.
Let that sink in – say it out loud (if you are alone):
“We are hard wired for pleasure and we tend to feel what those around us feel”.
Do you see how those two facts of human nature can make you more successful in sexual seduction?
Knowing that the person you are interacting with is hard wired for pleasure and subject to sensing your feelings and even starting to share your feelings, you can guide them toward a sexual encounter pretty easily.
Hard Wired Can Mean Hot Wired!
Using emotional contagion and our hard wired desire for pleasure, you can create a sense of sexual arousal in someone without ever bringing up the subject of sex.
It happens on an unspoken, subconscious level because we are sense feelings that are not openly discussed.
Just quietly think about things that you find arousing.
picture yourself with the person you desire in a sexual situation.
Very quickly, your unspoken feelings will be sensed and also possibly shared by the person you are with.
Those feelings and the fact that we are hard wired for pleasure will lead to a predictable outcome.
Try it.
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