Mature Dating:
Dating Older Women
To understand why mature dating is a perfect fit for younger guys; read on.
A lot of younger guys have discovered the advantages of relationships with older women.
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Mature women are more secure in who they are.
Also, they know exactly what they are looking for in a man. By contrast, younger women often times are insecure and into “playing games” with guys who pursue them.
Mature Dating = No Drama
This game playing almost never happens in mature dating because older women understand it’s a waste of time and energy. They have better ideas about how to spend that time and energy.
Additionally, they’ve lived enough to know that meaningless ego-crap just takes time away from more enjoyable pursuits. Also, they overlook a lot of the little mistakes a guy might make that younger women will latch onto as if they matter.
Utilizing “niche dating” will give you two legs up on the competition.
It is also a fair statement – generally speaking – that mature women make better sex partners because of their experience and lack of inhibitions. They know exactly what they want and they know exactly what you want as well. And they how to give it to you.
They have already been through the stages in life where they are searching for “Mr. Right”.
Many have already gone through those immature phases where they want guys to put them on a pedestal or compete over them – just because it stokes their ego.
And It Gets Even Better…
If mature dating is starting to sound attractive about now, just keep reading.
Older women are usually just seeking someone who can be fun to be around.
They want someone who can provide some emotional comfort and some physical gratification.
You won’t likely encounter any of that energy draining nonsense when dating mature women because it will be all about having a little quality time and nothing more.
That is one of the advantages of dating older women.
Mature Dating – Meeting Older Women
So what are some ways to meet these women?
There’s always the club scene; there is nothing wrong with that; but you could also:
1) Join a gym or a cycling club – this is a great way to meet older women who are fit and active.
2) Take an evening class at a local college or junior college that would appeal to you and to mature women.
This is a really good way to connect with women who have a shared interest with you; it’s nice when a relationship begins because of a common interest or emotional connection.
3) Check out some online dating resources. There are a lot of them and some of them can even match you up with a woman who is a good fit for you due to physical and personality traits.
4) Go on a cruise. Cruises are generally inexpensive, they are relaxing and a great way to meet women.
Some cruises even specialize in matching up younger men with older women. Appropriately enough, they are called, “Cougar Cruises”. It is pretty much guaranteed that you will hook up with one or more mature women by doing this.
5) Join a social organization or enroll in a dancing class since this is another way to meet mature women who have an interest in common with you.
6) Do some volunteer work – to meet other volunteers.
Listen; keep with me for a moment here; I haven’t lost my mind:
There Is A Method To The Madness:
Volunteer to do a couple of hours per week at a local nursing home or retirement home because you’ll meet lots of older women. Now here’s the deal – I’m not talking about meeting little, old ladies using wheelchairs or walkers.
But I am talking about meeting the mature daughters who come to visit them!
Let me just be full-on mercenary about this for a moment:
Most women really like guys who do any kind of volunteer work. They find that to be an attractive personality trait. Most women who have parents in a nursing home are going to visit on a regular basis. So here’s where you enter the picture:
Spend a couple of hours a week as a volunteer. You don’t even have to do anything special.
Just be there to read the newspaper out loud to the old timers who want to listen. Or help the elderly learn how to check emails, use their computers or use their mobile phones.
Consequently, the daughters come to visit and there you are:
Selflessly donating your time to help old folks out in a number of ways.
Did I mention that most women just love guys who volunteer?
In Summary:
The long and the short of it is that older women are a great match for younger men because:
A) Mature women have life “figured out” – they aren’t waiting for Mr. Perfect to come along and sweep them off of their feet.
B) They are generally more financially secure.
C) They aren’t into playing games or screwing with your head because they know what they want, and drama isn’t it.
D) Obviously they have more experience in life – and probably in sex as well. Consequently, they know how to rock your world in the bedroom.
E) Maturity of judgment and emotional security make for a far more stable relationship and a lot less drama than you might have with a younger woman.
Consequently, mature dating is a great fit for many younger guys for even more reasons than I can mention here.
If you’re looking for a secure and stable relationship you owe it to yourself to try mature dating. There is nothing wrong with dating younger women, period. However, those relationships can be dramatic and emotionally draining and full of mind games.
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